

In a follow up article to the one for agnostics and atheists, I offer a definition of spirituality that is based upon being open to enlarging one's perspective of self and life.
"My own personal Spiritual belief system is one form of spirituality. It is certainly not the only one. Mine works for me very well in helping me to have a relationship with life that allows me to be happier today. It is not necessary for you to accept my belief system in order for you to use the tools, techniques, and perspectives that I have developed for emotional healing / codependence recovery / inner child integration.
For the purposes of this discussion of spiritual integration, I would now define what I refer to as a Spiritual Awakening in the quote above, as: being open to a larger perspective - awakening from being trapped in a limiting perspective. In this regard, spiritual would be a qualifier, an adjective, that describes the quality of one's relationship with life.
This adjective, spiritual, would be (in my definition) a word describing an expanded level of consciousness. A level of consciousness, of awareness, that is expansive and inclusive and facilitates personal growth - as opposed to limited, exclusive, rigid, and inhibiting growth, development, and alternative view points.
By this definition, any religion that claims to be the chosen one, that excludes alternative perspectives or certain people, is not spiritual."
- The Recovery Process for inner child healing - spiritual integration
This particular column has grown out of the fact that this past Sunday was Easter. Easter, like other "Christian" Holidays, is a celebration that was designed to replace the pagan holidays of the people the early Christians were trying to convert.
"Christmas, like almost every other Christian Holiday, is a celebration that was usurped from Pagan religions that preceded Christianity. The early Christians obviously included some people who were very good at marketing, because they made Christianity more palatable to the people they were trying to convert by stealing Pagan celebrations and making them Christian Holidays.
This early pragmatism of Christianity laid the foundation for Christianity to become the state religion of Rome. That state religion then became very dogmatic in using Christianity to conquer, subdue, and control the masses."
- Joy2MeU Update December 2004
Easter is scheduled in the same time period as the Spring Equinox. Spring is the time of new beginnings - of new growth, of rebirth, of resurrection. Easter is about resurrection and the Truth of eternal life.
When I began my quest to understand how it was possible that there could be a Higher Power, a God-Force, that was Loving - one of the first limiting perspectives I needed to enlarge was my perspective of life and death.
As the quote from my book above states, death is a transition. The Soul / Spirit leaves the physical body at death - but the Soul does not die. The energy that is the Soul existed prior to birth and continues after death. The Soul has eternal life in my belief.
This is the polar opposite of the beliefs which
Codependence causes us to have a distorted
Truth, in my understanding, is not an intellectual
When we were 3 or 4 we couldn't look around us
One of the many things which confused me in
The first step is about recognizing that I am
The path to empowerment and freedom from the
I write a great deal about the importance of being
I learned that being willing to ask for help
We learned about life as children and it is
I had stated in my last article that I would devote
One of the gifts of the twelve step recovery
We are all carrying around repressed pain, terror,
One of the difficulties in this healing process is
Codependency involves living life unconsciously
In my October article I talked about shutting up
In my September article here, Emotional
"I have had many people ask me what I mean
In March of 2003 I began a series of articles on
Twelve step recovery is a program of
In this series of articles, I am sharing my beliefs.
In the quote from my book just above, I mention
We buried my father this last weekend. He had
I mentioned in second column of this series that
In last months column (Quantum Physics -
Love is a vibrational frequency. It is our direct
I mentioned in the second column in this series
In this series of articles that I started in January